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How my first solo trip happened

July 26, 2018

I never thought my solo trip would ever happen, but it just happened when I had to stay alone at home and my boyfriend suggested me to travel solo instead and I can’t thank him enough for this. Initially, I was not sure and  being honest I was a bit unhappy with his suggestion, with the thoughts like this (how the hell he can say this to me, I wouldn’t be able to communicate, I would feel awkward and lonely,  won’t he miss me, doesn’t he know I have never even crossed the border of my city alone and this time it was a foreign country with an alien language,  How am I going to manage everything, what if I got lost, Doesn’t he want to travel with me, doesn’t he know how much my parents were worried about my journey from India to Japan) but I gathered all the confidence and overcame my fear and said yes to this enriching lifetime opportunity.

osaka city
Roaming in Osaka city

Being the youngest child, I am still treated like a 5-year-old silly girl. All of my earlier trips were with my family only and I was a bit scared at first, I have never lived on my own.  There were so many fears in mind and I couldn’t even sleep the night before and I was expecting my boyfriend to change his mind and drop this idea of my solo trip and the day came, We went for a live orchestra and then I departed from there for my solo trip with my half heart and nobody stopped me :p and the excitement begins as I boarded the Thunderbird from Kanazawa to Kyoto. As I took a bite of my favourite blueberry cheesecake and the views outside my window changed my thoughts from fear to excitement.

 

view from train window
Beautiful view from the train window

It was all unknown to me. I reached Kyoto and it took me 10 minutes to figure out the right exit gate for the hotel and there were many such moments when I couldn’t figure out the things.  It was not easy but I can say It was worth getting lost sometimes just to find your true self. 🙂 I travelled to three cities during my trip. I discovered my capabilities, I cared for myself a little more and I spent time with my thoughts, I discovered that I am complete and can sustain on my own, I discovered the things about myself and sometimes surprised myself, I got to know that I don’t always need someone by my side and most of all I listened and followed my heart without anyone’s interruption. 

These 7 days spent with me made me closer to myself. Now I am craving some more such trips. I am sharing a few pictures, and you can clearly see peace and joy on my face. I got to know that I am enough for myself and I do not always have to rely on others to be happy. I recommend everyone to plan such a trip with your best companion(yourself).

Deer park
my fellow explorer

I was at peace with myself

 

P.S:  This is the first time I have shared my personal life on my blog with the intention of connecting more with my viewers. Please let me your views, should I write such more blogs?

I spent lots of time with my camera as well and will be sharing all those amazing pictures here soon.

Lots of love

Yogu

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